Offering your services as an online female dominant is a wonderful thing. But, like many online interactions, it can be filled with snakey, lying bastards.
That’s right, some men have even MORE reason to lie online. Which I find quite odd considering they are willing to share their most secret of secrets with you.
The truth is… everyone lies. And depending on who you are it can be more or less of a big deal. For me, it’s no big deal because I take everything someone says in an online interaction with a grain of salt.
For online interactions with submissive men actions are way more important than words. Until you establish an actual relationship (filled with repetitive, trustworthy action) than you need to safeguard yourself in order to not waste your time with the typical online loser.
- Don’t trust these hoes. Like your favorite Chris Brown song… “These hoes ain’t loyal!” Let an online submissive that wants to serve you do the chasing. Never chase after men who say they want to do things for you. That’s just the Golden rule period. There is one of you and PLENTY of them. Don’t make one lying ass trick feel special be checking up on him.
- PAY WALL. Liars typically aren’t into paying. I pretty much can weed out the unworthy by pay walling the fuck out of them. Sometimes the intial interaction can be free, but once I start smelling the stench of fuckery I start charging for my time. Charge for responses, charge for interaction, shit…charge for smile.
- Take them back with NO enthusiasm. It’s the nature of the game. They come, they beg, they worship and sometimes just like that…they disappear without a fucking word. Who knows why, it’s multiple reasons really. I think some deal with cognitive dissonance or they believe they can do more than they can. Whatever the reason don’t be overjoyed, don’t give them that satisfaction. Demand more money.
- No expectations. This will save you a lot of headache beyond being an online femdom. Just don’t expect things from people in the first place. Let them do what they may. People aren’t perfect and make mistakes. We all do. Just chill and be the Goddess that you are. Don’t stress.
- Always be in control. You are the dominant one. You are the object of desire. Always be steps ahead. Over time you will be able to read these online submissives like a book. Stand your ground and never apologize for what you want. Demand it, say your peace and let them react as they may. Don’t be apologetic.